I grew up learning the duties and responsibilities of every members of the family as early as age six (6) in primary two, ofcourse as little children, we all believed in the words of our teachers than our parents. It was whatever we learn or heard in school that was final.
I noticed from the small gossip we usually had as friends back then that it seems in many homes our mothers take up the responsibility of been a woman as well as a man. (How do I mean?) Mr teacher says Father provides for the house and pay the bills, but when we discuss among ourselves our mothers are actually the bread winners. As contradictory as this really was to us, we grew up struggling to know whose duty it actually was to provide for the family. Hear me Sir and Ma, as these mothers provides for their home, they never for once disobeyed or disrespected their husbands.
Women in the days of my mothers were superior beings in their homes, they necessary don't need to scream about what they do and what they do not, irrespective of what their husbands do or say to them, they remain submissive and these to us are the reasons why many homes were kept.
When a woman is rightly treated submission comes easily, thumbs up to the Fathers out there, who have realize this and had made a strong decision in treating their wives rightly.
Know this! whatever you do to your wife, your child tends to do to his, because he is watching every step you take. Be careful not to give him the wrong opinion.
A strong woman is a blessing, Show me a successful man and I will show you a strong, supportive and committed woman, who will stay strong behind her husband and defend the father of her children.
A strong woman builds her home and protect it, a strong woman stays back and protect the children she bore, not run away like a coward in the face of challenges where they arise.
I salute every woman The childs" first love, the husbands' mother, strong you are! Even without uttering words you're a Strong being, one who bores, who cooks, who washes, who cleans, who trains, who nutures, who encourages, who pampers and who prays. Proverbs 31 calls her A VIRTOUS WOMAN
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Written by:
Yetunde Adedokun
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