Let the KIDS Talk

COMMUNICATION between Parents and their children.

Kid One: How do i talk to a mother who takes advantages of everything i tell her when i do something wrong?

Kid Two: How do i talk to my Dad who shuts me down every time i want to talk to him...
You will hear: Keep quiet and let me hear word.

Kid Three: How do i talk to A mother who feels she is never wrong, her opinion is always the Best, she will never listen to my own opinion...
You will hear: what do you know?

#JesusBaby it is not like WE don't want to talk to them but seriously even the parents are Not ready to LISTEN. 

So this should not be about us, but about them.

Tell our Parents to give us listening ears, No wonder My Parents don't know Who i really am!!!

They can't even say what i can do and what i can't do, My friends Knows me better.

Kid One:   At home i am the quiet child they want but me in the class, i am the parrot! My teacher always complain....

Kid Two:  At home i am very stubborn since my parents don't care about what i want to say, But in school where my teacher listens to every nonsense i have to say, i cooperate. i am my teacher's Favourite because she says i don't disobey her. And i am a very good child. My parents comes to school to report but my teacher takes my side knowing fully well that i am a good kid at school.

What my parents do not know is that  i'm a different and perfect kid at school...

#Jesusbaby please ASK THIS QUESTION to every parents you meet...

#HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW YOUR CHILD(REN)?

Hmnnnn!!!!

This is alarming!!!
No wonder many parents are scared when their kids get admission into institutions of higher learning!!

Smiles... If you know your child, You will confidently sit back and relax even when they are out of your sight?

The Best way you can know your children is to LET THEM TALK, HEAR THEM SPEAK, AND MAKE THEM TALK...

My Bible says: OUT OF THE ABUNDANCE OF THE HEART,  The MOUTH SPEAKETH...
Whenever they talk, from their speech, you can correct their thoughts, you can readdress their mindset and you can Change their opinions about Life....

No wonder many parents feels hurt when the kids are grown ups and they expect them to communicate about everything, Work, Partners, home, grandkids etc and THEY ARE NOT TALKING....(Its not their fault, You didn't train them to talk to you)

 Children's Parrot have Spoken again...
Pick the one that talks to you and leave the REST..

Children, hope it was said the way you wanted it.
Parents I hope I communicated something to you!!!

Yetunde Adedokun.               
Children's Parrot!
©Kids Advocate.

MR HARSH DAD

Mr HARSH DAD!

OH REALLY!
In this century?

Your children still run to carry their books at the sound of your Car Horn!

Your children still panic once they hear 'Dad is Back'

Your children still pretend to be Normal once their Father is Back!

This is serious! If your children still run inside INSTEAD of running out to welcome you home as a FATHER! You seriously need a CHECK....

One of the things we grown up detest about our days was the fact that we were made to FEAR OUR FATHERS. To the extent that we cant sit in the parlour if Daddy is there (do i have a witness)

RESPECT IS NOT THE SAME AS FEAR

Of course I advocate #Kids respect your parents.

But Sir!  Respecting You should not bring FEAR.
Here is the century when Boys and Girls are curious to know a lot of things, If i cant ask my Dad! Who do i ask?

Should i shock you? Research has shown that children naturally believe their #FATHERS know more than their #MOTHERS.

(I take objection to that though)smiles

But then if that is what they believe WHY NOT MAKE YOURSELF ACCESSIBLE AND AVAILABLE AS A DAD TO YOUR CHILDREN...

If you are a VICTIM of this as a FATHER reading this...
Here is my suggestion!!!
Correct this with HUGGING....

This is the starting POINT to erasing the fear.

IF I CAN #HUG MY DAD, THEN TRUST ME I CAN TELL HIM ANYTHING. (Says A child in SS ONE 13years)

©Yetunde Adedokun
Kids Advocate...



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