Mr HARSH DAD!
OH REALLY!
In this century?
Your children still run to carry their books at the sound of your Car Horn!
Your children still panic once they hear 'Dad is Back'
Your children still pretend to be Normal once their Father is Back!
This is serious! If your children still run inside INSTEAD of running out to welcome you home as a FATHER! You seriously need a CHECK....
One of the things we grown up detest about our days was the fact that we were made to FEAR OUR FATHERS. To the extent that we cant sit in the parlour if Daddy is there (do i have a witness)
RESPECT IS NOT THE SAME AS FEAR
Of course I advocate #Kids respect your parents.
But Sir! Respecting You should not bring FEAR.
Here is the century when Boys and Girls are curious to know a lot of things, If i cant ask my Dad! Who do i ask?
Should i shock you? Research has shown that children naturally believe their #FATHERS know more than their #MOTHERS.
(I take objection to that though)smiles
But then if that is what they believe WHY NOT MAKE YOURSELF ACCESSIBLE AND AVAILABLE AS A DAD TO YOUR CHILDREN...
If you are a VICTIM of this as a FATHER reading this...
Here is my suggestion!!!
Correct this with HUGGING....
This is the starting POINT to erasing the fear.
IF I CAN #HUG MY DAD, THEN TRUST ME I CAN TELL HIM ANYTHING. (Says A child in SS ONE 13years)
©Yetunde Adedokun
Kids Advocate...
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